All I wanted for Valentine's Day is an amazing kiss...just not from my husband, since I've been kissing him for 10 years. It's like switching from Pepsi to Coke once in a while. It doesn't mean I love Pepsi any less... And why shouldn't it be fine with him, since love is supposed to be unconditional! Wishful thinking! In reality, love is conditional, jealous and very selfish.