As someone who has always been passionate about personal growth and entrepreneurship, I found myself facing a significant challenge: the fear of being visible. Despite investing in programs, coaching, and having all the necessary strategies in place, there was something holding me back from fully stepping into the spotlight and sharing my message with the world.
It wasn’t that I didn’t know how to be visible; it was more about the underlying fear of rejection and judgement that held me back. Deep down, I struggled with imposter syndrome thoughts – feeling inadequate or that I wasn’t good enough. The fear of being ridiculed or having my ideas dismissed loomed over me like a dark cloud.
As the saying goes, “You can’t be the world’s best kept secret”
I knew that if I wanted to create meaningful change in my life and business, I had to confront this fear head-on. That’s when I came across the concept of hiding in plain sight.
At a retreat, one of my fellow participants described herself as hiding in plain sight, and it immediately struck a chord with me. Like her, I was putting myself out there, appearing visible, but there was still a part of me holding back. I was hesitant to take on opportunities that would push me to the forefront, playing it safe by offering my expertise as part of a panel rather than taking centre stage.
Reflecting on my journey, I realised that the underlying fear of rejection and the need for acceptance had been holding me back for far too long. It wasn’t just about the fear itself; it was about the belief that my worth was tied to others’ opinions of me. And that needed to change.
At that retreat, a remarkable thing happened. As my fellow participant bravely shared her struggle with visibility, it resonated deeply with each of us in the room. Women from different backgrounds, with varying levels of success, all understood the fear of being seen and the ways in which we unconsciously held ourselves back. It was a transformative experience, filled with vulnerability and healing.
My Visibility Promise
From that day forward, I made a conscious decision to embrace visibility and step into my power. I realised that the fear of rejection was part of the human experience, but it didn’t have to define my path. I understood that by hiding in plain sight, I was not only denying myself the opportunity to make a meaningful impact but also robbing the world of my unique insights and talents.
So, I challenged myself to reframe rejection as a stepping stone to growth. I began to view every rejection or setback as a valuable lesson, an opportunity to refine my message, and ultimately, a catalyst for personal and professional development.
I also adopted a new perspective on visibility, one that emphasised authenticity and genuine connection rather than perfection. I realised that by showing up as my true self, flaws and all, I could connect with my audience on a deeper level. I stopped striving for external validation and started focusing on sharing my knowledge and experiences genuinely.
Embracing visibility isn’t about tirelessly striving for attention.
It’s about confidently owning your voice, embracing your expertise, and fearlessly stepping into the spotlight. Through this journey, I learned that being visible doesn’t equate to constant work or exhausting effort. It can be a natural extension of who you are, aligned with your natural strengths and energy.
Now, as I continue my journey in the world of entrepreneurship and personal growth, I am no longer hiding in plain sight. I have shed the self-imposed limitations and embraced the power of being seen and heard. I invite you to reflect on your own journey. Are you hiding in plain sight? Are you holding back due to the fear of rejection or the need for acceptance?
Remember, your unique voice and perspective deserve to be shared with the world. Embrace visibility, step into your power, and watch as your business and life transform in profound ways. Together, let’s leave behind the fear of rejection and become the change-makers we were destined to be.
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About Abigail Rebecca.
Abigail Rebecca, The Visibility Goddess, is a Human Design Visibility Mentor, International Speaker and Thought Leader on Aquarian Age femme leadership.
Based on 28 years experience of coaching and mentoring thousands of women leaders in Fortune 500 companies and in her successful coaching business, she’s created the tried and trusted Illuminate Method™. It helps you align your biz strategy to your unique Human Design, to scale your biz empire with ease.
